“Get used to standing out. You can’t be afraid to let people witness how amazing, magical, gorgeous, brilliant, and different you are, a seed constantly maturing and elevating into new form.”
the best thing i did to start cultivating a more peaceful, happy energy in my life was make a commitment to stop judging others. with outrage culture and just online culture in general, it’s so normalised to be in the judgement zone 24/7, always seeing the absolute worst in everyone and everything. it’s so much harder to live well in this mindset. and honestly i didn’t even realise how sick and twisted my mind was until i was out of it. i felt self-righteous, like i was making a difference, ‘holding people to account’. but all i was doing was making myself feel worse about the world, wasting my time judging when i could’ve been building and connecting and finding all the many positive and beautiful people, things, and experiences that are out there…
Having high self esteem comes down to keeping promises to yourself. But when your energy is low and your environment is working against you, even the smallest tasks feel impossible. You start procrastinating, breaking commitments and convincing yourself that you’re lazy or incapable even unworthy
It’s not a lack of discipline—it’s exhaustion, poor nutrition, mental burnout and a distracting / negative environment holding you back. When your body runs on empty and you’re surrounded by chaos, your mind follows
Confidence isn’t just about willpower. It’s about having the energy and the right environment to follow through. Take care of yourself, design a space that supports your focus and self trust will follow
